One date in recent history
permanently seared its mark onto America’s conscience: September 11, 2001. This
defining moment exposed the best and the worst things about us. It forced us to
look in the mirror as a nation and ask ourselves what really matters.
The terrorists who slammed
airplanes into the World Trade Center caught us completely off guard. In the
middle of a business-as-usual morning, they showed us how naive we were about
the magnitude of their hate and the extent to which we could be humbled by
their violence.
Many successful people
found themselves trapped in the clutches of this ghastly event. At 9:03 that
Tuesday morning, their SAT scores and the cars they drove to work meant
nothing. There was very little that their pedigrees and résumés could do for
them. The famous as well as the obscure became equals in the statistics. In the
Twin Towers, “Who’s Who” died side by side with “Who’s he?”
But in the midst of this
crisis, there were magnificent people who responded to the urgency of the
moment and gave everything they had for the sake of others. As the successful rushed down
the stairs of the World Trade Center, the truly
great ran up. As the well-heeled and comfortable ran for their
lives, the truly great slipped inside the nightmare to see what they could do
to help those who were left behind.
And after the smoke
cleared, thousands of truly great people stepped out from their quiet positions
within the ranks of successful Americans and opened their hearts and their
wallets to those whose lives had been shattered by this cataclysmic event.
Isn’t it ironic that as a
nation we worship those who are successful, but when tragedy strikes, our
survival depends upon those who are great? A cry for help is always answered
first by people who live for something more valuable than their own fame or
fortune. They respond even though there isn’t a thing in it for them.
That’s why, when it’s time
to bury our dead, we mourn the loss of those
who were successful, but we celebrate the memory of those who were truly great—the firefighters, the EMTs, the rescue workers, and the countless civilians who sacrificed everything they had for people they’d never met.
who were successful, but we celebrate the memory of those who were truly great—the firefighters, the EMTs, the rescue workers, and the countless civilians who sacrificed everything they had for people they’d never met.
Truly great people seldom
simply happen;
they are carefully groomed for the moment long before they are forced to face
it. Long before they get to these challenges, so many of them have lived within
the proving grounds of a family that inspired them to true greatness.
An excerpt taken from Raising Kids For True
Greatness, pp 11-12, Tim Kimmel, Thomas Nelson Publishing.
That kind of life will not be learned in the pressures of daily life, with a focus on schooling alone. It is an intentional life, one that is not only taught but caught. As a mom, my life needs to first reflect love for my Savior and to set an example of living for others and not for my schedule alone.
For this new year my focus will be differnt and my teaching of my children will be different. Yes, they will still need to accomplish their daily assignments and tasks, but in the midst of life, I want to help them to get a glimpse of greatness beyond themselves.
I hope to achieve this by a few intentional things:
- Pray diligently for my children
- Help them establish good, healthy routinues in their daily lives. One thing I am going to try is a daily planner by Ann Voskamp from A Holy Experience
- Read great books. Since most of my children are taught at home I can have an impact on what they read. This year I am committed for them to read great literature and heroes of the faith. I want them to get a glimpse of others who had a bigger picture than themselves.
